The Problem With Being a MILF

You've all probably seen it: some girl on your friends list happens to have a baby and still look good, and to every single nice photo she posts, the "MILF" (Mother I'd Like to Fuck) comments appear never ending. Now, I'm sure a lot of the time, the comments are all in good fun, but I can't help feeling a bit queasy because of them. First of all let this picture explain one thing:

Sorry, I'm not sorry

Second of all, why is this something we consider a compliment? In 2014, have women not moved beyond the ultimate compliment being that we're fuckable? You gave life! You birthed a baby, and now you're raising this little wonder into what will hopefully be a human being that you can be proud of, which is something that takes a lot of hard work and dedication. All that, and the greatest mom related compliment someone can give you, is that you're a mom they'd like to fuck? Considering this, please ask yourselves: is it really strange that a lot of men don't respect women? I'm a woman, and I most certainly have much less respect for women like that, than for women who demand respect for their abilities, intelligence, and achievements. If objectifying yourself is all you have, you don't have anything. It's not empowering, it's not liberating, and you're not being "independent" or "strong". Owning your sexuality as a woman is empowering and you should never be ashamed of it, but self objectification is not owning your sexuality; it's handing it over to others for them to do with as they please.

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